The best sexual position based on penis size

Written by  on October 16, 2014 

c8I was wondering about penis size. What is normal? and, what kinds of sex positions work for guys with smaller, average or even larger penis’.

I figured the best place to start would be with a few online adult shops, I turned up this Australian Adult Shop – they seem to have a broad range of toys for men with penis’ of various sizes. So it means there is a market, but while they sold toys, and were helpful in that regard, I want more indepth studies on normal penis sizes, sex, and toys. For example, can guys with a small penis find a toy which they can even masturbate with? and, if you have a small penis can you even have meaningful sex?

So, it’s possible to find toys, but the sites were focussed on the toys, and not sex without a sex toy – not unsurprising! If there are toys then it also follows that its possible to have sex with a small penis, so I did some research on what positions suit what penis sizes.

In terms of sex – The sexual positions from the Kama Sutra have a reason of being. In fact, positions described in the book are based on harmony created in the bedroom between husband and wife. In other words, it is not the size of the penis, but the compatibility between individuals in a couple situation. This means that the size of the penis is not essential to obtain pleasure, when your lover’s body is correctly positioned. Do you know how to engage with your partner in the right way?

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First, we have to calculate penis size to establish whether it is big or not. This is not an easy task, as the penis is as long or as wide as the partner may feel it during sexual intercourse. Having said this, we cannot ignore that there is an average penis size we can consider to guide us through this tricky situation.

Penis sizes
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After reading hundreds of articles about it (some more and some less scientific) and after having listened to so many men and (much more) women, I can assure you that the general considerations on the “average size of the erect penis” in the Western world are among the following classifications:

Below average penis size: for a penis to be considered less than average it has to be less than 12cm in length and 3cm in diameter.

Average penis size: for a penis to be considered to have the average size it should range from 12-14cm long, and a diameter of between 3 and 4cm.

Big penis size: do not get daunted by the idea of a humongous sized penis, an erect penis is considered large when it is 16-18cm in length and the diameter is close and extends beyond 4cm.

Huge penises: A penis is considered huge when its size goes beyond 18-20cm long and 4.5cm in diameter (remember that these are sexual oddities and are not considered normal day to day.

Well, once we know what we have on our hands so-to-speak, we are going to recommend an ideal position (with variations) for each penis size.

Sexual Position: Reverse Cowgirl
Size: Below average penis size
Difficulty: 1/5
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This position is where the woman is mounted on top of the man facing away from his head, and she extends her arms until she can grab his ankles or calves. Thus, she will be able to get the entire penis into her vagina, besides being able to choose the angle and intensity that the body requires. A more common variant is to sit up straight although angle and depth of penetration are lost.

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It is ideal because it also enables the couple to create situations for sex games to increase arousal. Anything from the classics such as light whipping, to the use of any sex toy for couples and hands-free vibrators. The latter are particularly desirable due to the fact that it is erotic for women to be wearing sex toys while making love (that is, toys that are inserted into the vagina to vibrate (and/or rotate) along with the rhythm of penetration.

Sexual Position: Doggie style
Size: Average penis size
Difficulty: 1/5

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I’ve said it many times: it is such a simple position to implement, and it is as effective as it is pleasant for both parties involved. It is not for nothing that this position is etched into the collective imagination of the general population.

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Depending on bodies and the positions they can stretch to, there is a variant that would allow a deeper penetration; this position involves the woman lifting the knee and twisting her leg in order for her partner to be able to grasp it, and hold it up in the air while the male thrusts and pulls on the leg.

Sexual position: Statue (Comfortable version)
Size: large penis
Difficulty: 3/5

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You can view the full complex version online, and I am sure you will find it right away. It can also be located on the list of positions created for the dominant man. On this occasion, we are going to describe the simple version in which the woman’s buttocks are placed on a low table in a seating position while her legs rest on his chest. Thus, you get a reclined position that avoids painful penetration; this is a typical position for couples with large penises.

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On one hand, he cannot thrust into her with full strength as he has his knees anchored on the ground and, secondly, her thighs control the power and the possibility of introducing the penis entirely. This way you can keep the passion during sex without spoiling the moment with pain.

Sexual Position: The rocking horse
Size: Huge penis
Difficulty: 1/5

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This position is also on a top five list of best positions for female pleasure. It is ideal for women to be able to control the angles, speed and depth of penetration to avoid painful penetration. However, this may not be enough when you are faced with an XL member. So remember: make foreplay a priority; use lubricant; lower your speed and let the woman control all of the movements.

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Every time I read the Kama Sutra, I realize that sex is not as easy and free-flowing as I thought. However, even more amazing is what you can discover about what happens during the practice of these positions: Have you ever thought that the shape of the penis also plays an important role when it comes to sex?

So as you can see, the size of the penis might matter, but there are also several different factors that influence how much you enjoy sex. Position, penis shape, curvature, and stamina along with foreplay all play their part in achieving a better sexual session for both partners.

References:
https://www.frisky.com.au/buyers-guides/sex-toys/male-toys-guides/masturbator-buyers-guide
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http://www.indiana.edu/~kinsey/resources/FAQ.html#penis
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