If you’ve read the 50 Shades of Grey trilogy or even just one of the books you may realize there are sexual acts and deviances that may have never occurred to you. You may also (hopefully) realize that while the book is an incredibly stimulating erotica novel, it is woefully unrealistic.
Luckily though we can tone down some of Christian and Anastasia’s sex scenes to things mere mortals can preform.
Shower sex. Anastasia and Christian took shower sex to another level in the book series but don’t worry about competing with that. Shower sex can be hot… if you plan it right. Water actually works against your natural lubrication so bring a small vial of lube in with you. Adding extra lube will make things go much smoother which is going to be important because most showers have some space restraint. Try letting your guy enter from behind you while your standing. Brace your self with your hands or forearms on the shower wall. Also take care to keep your balance cause falls can be a pretty big buzzkill.
Spanking- Mr. Grey way absolutely correct when he said spanking can spice up the bedroom. If you’re uncomfortable with this concept just start very simply, with bare hands. Spanking with bare hands can be exciting because of the associated noise, and the slight stinging both partners will feel. If you want to be spanked but are uncomfortable about asking, just spank yourself a few times or move your partners hands to your ass and show them the way.